In the body
- Tiredness that sleep does not repair
- Everything feeling like effort
- Changes in appetite or sleep
- A heaviness in the limbs
When everything feels heavy and the colour has drained out of things, willpower is not the way back. Depression therapy works gently with what is underneath the numbness, rebuilding your connection to energy and meaning.

Depression is not sadness turned up loud. It is often the opposite: a flattening, a numbness, a sense that the volume has been turned down on everything, including the things that used to move you.
Many people who come for depression therapy are still functioning, still showing up for others, with the heaviness living underneath. The work is not to force yourself to feel better. It is to understand what the low mood is protecting, and to rebuild, in small real steps, your connection to energy and meaning.
Depression is often quieter than sadness. It shows in the body, the feelings, and the shape of your days.
Not talking you into feeling better. Understanding the flatness, and rebuilding from underneath.
We get curious about the flatness, what it is protecting you from and what it needs, so that feeling can return at a pace your system can bear.
Using parts work (Internal Family Systems), we meet the harsh critic and the exhausted part carrying the weight. Depression often lifts as they feel understood rather than pushed.
Not toxic positivity. Gentle, doable movements back toward what once mattered, rebuilding energy and connection in increments your body can trust.
Start with a free discovery call. No pressure, just a gentle first conversation.
A low period usually has a reason and lifts within a couple of weeks. Depression settles in and stays, often without a clear cause, and starts to affect sleep, appetite, energy, and your interest in things you normally enjoy. If the heaviness has lasted more than two weeks and is colouring most of your days, it is worth talking to someone.
Not necessarily. Many people work through depression with therapy alone; others find medication steadies them enough for the deeper work. As a psychotherapist I do not prescribe, but I can coordinate with a GP or psychiatrist if it is worth considering. There is no single right path.
Yes, and that lack of motivation is a symptom, not a personal failing. We start small and move at a pace that does not overwhelm an already depleted system. Simply showing up to the first conversation is often the hardest and most important step.
They overlap and can feel similar, but burnout is tied to depletion, often from work, and eases with real rest and change, while depression follows you into things you love and rest does not touch it. My burnout therapy page and the burnout symptoms guide unpack the difference.
It depends on what is underneath. Some people feel meaningful lifts within a couple of months; where depression is woven into longer patterns, the work takes longer. We review progress together and you stay in control of the pace.
Yes. Sessions are available in English and Mandarin, online or in person in Singapore.
Plain-language pieces on numbness, emptiness, and finding the way back.
A free 20-minute discovery call is a gentle place to start. No pressure, just a conversation about what has been weighing on you.
Book a ConsultationShare a little about what you're going through. I'll respond within 24-48 hours. Sessions available in English or Mandarin.
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